Relationship Coaching

People have many options when it comes to getting effective help in making positive changes in their life. It can be confusing to figure out what kind of help you need. People often wonder about the difference between therapy and life coaching, and which strategy is right for them.
Do you agree that every relationship could benefit from a “tune-up” every now and then? Are you currently single and looking to get prepared to be in a healthy relationship? Is your relationship “stuck” and in need of a coach for some healthy relationship skills? Are you in need of a certified facilitator to walk you through a pre-engagement or pre-marital assessment to prepare you for a lifetime of marriage?
BENEFITS OF RELATIONSHIP COACHING

You will learn:

how to connect with your partner’s feelings

how to resolve conflict safely

how to affirm and appreciate each other

how your partner’s personality works

cope with and appreciate your personality differences

how to set mutual goals for relationship happiness

you and your partner’s love languages

how to nurture each other

how to meet each other’s emotional needs

the spirituality of relationships and marriage

other resources for your relationship

WHO IS RELATIONSHIP COACHING FOR?

For good, average, or conflicted relationships for those who want to avoid the pain and trauma of separation and divorce for those who want to be fully alive in their relationship for those who are currently single and looking to get prepared to be in a healthy relationship.

HOW DOES RELATIONSHIP COACHING WORK?

Relationship coaching focuses on teaching and coaching you through simple but powerful skills that you can easily apply at home. Just a few sessions may be necessary to make a big difference in your relationship, or as many sessions as you request. You will be in a safe and supportive environment where you are always in charge of your own process and growth as a couple or individual.

You or you and your partner will meet Melissa Jane relationship expert in a confidential session. Relationship coaching is available days and evenings year round. You can still come by yourself if your partner is not willing to come. Perhaps your partner will change if you make some changes in your own behavior.

Sexologist and Relationship Advisor
Melissa Jane

Therapy and Counseling 

The Benefits of Couple Counseling

Couple’s Counseling serves to help couples explore their relational difficulties in a safe environment, while learning how to work together to heal their relationship.

You will discover the enjoyment of working together using Melissa Jane’s revolutionary model. Couples practice how to address painful issues utilizing boundaries and improved communication, and building on existing strengths within the coupleship. New rules of engagement are introduced. Vulnerability is encouraged. Exploration of embroiled patterns stemming from family of origin are examined reducing shame and aiding to liberate those behaviors.1. We will work on addressing underlying hurts and issues that get triggered and create disconnection
2. Melissa Jane will help you to find new ways to process through the hurts and make the disconnection an vehicle for intimacy and new levels of love.
3. The underlying focus of the workshop helps couples to find safe ways to communicate about emotional needs.
4. This helps to bring to awareness the ways that our early life experiences affect our relationship with our love partner.
5. You and your partner will open up powerful insights and provides new knowledge about ways to reclaim positive love connections.
Melissa Jane
https://sexologybkk.wordpress.com/

When your little man is not working

Erectile dysfunction, or ED, is when it is hard to get or keep an erection that’s firm enough for sex. ED affects as many as 30 million men.

Most men have problems with erections from time to time. But when this happens more than half of the time, then ED is present. ED can happen when health problems limit blood flow or damage nerves in the penis. ED can also be caused by stress or emotional reasons. ED can be an early warning of a more serious illness. Heart disease, high blood pressure and high blood sugar can all cause ED. Finding and treating the cause(s) of your ED can help your overall health and well-being.

How Erections Work

When you are not sexually aroused, your penis is soft and limp. During sexual arousal, nerve messages release chemicals that increase blood flow into the penis. The blood flows into two erection chambers made of spongy tissue (the corpus cavernosum) in the penis. The “smooth muscle” in the erection chambers relaxes, which lets blood enter and stay in the chambers. The pressure of the blood in the chambers makes the penis firm, giving you an erection. After you have an orgasm, the blood flows out of the chambers and the erection goes away.

When Erections Don’t Work

Men who have a problem with their sexual performance may be reluctant to talk to their doctor or therapist , seeing it as an embarrassing issue. However, modern medicine has revealed numerous medical and psychological explanations for erectile dysfunction, including the possibility of serious underlying conditions that it is important to address.

Doctors and Therapists are used to dealing with potentially embarrassing issues in private consultations, and not only is erectile dysfunction now more clearly understood, there is also often a solution for the condition. If you or someone close to you has a problem with getting or maintaining an erection, contact a sexologist, Urologist or a Doctor for consultation and advice.

There are a number of things you can try yourself. Recommendation is to seeing a therapist to get assessment to start to do the right exercises for your needs.

 

 

Sex Therapy, Couple Counseling, Marital Therapist, Relationship Coach

Sex therapy helps couples talk about sex with each other.  A sex therapist feels comfortable talking about sex.  While nothing is off-limits and nothing is taboo to talk about, most people have trouble bringing up anything to talk about when it comes to sex.  Sex therapy gets to the problem.  Couples often can’t solve these intimate issues on their own because disappointment, hurt, anger, resentment, accusations, inhibition, and several rounds of fighting might have shut down the very discussion most needed. Sex therapists have hope. I’ve been a sex therapist for over 15 years and a marital therapist treating sexual problems for many years and have treated thousands of couples.

Sex therapists are usually experienced relationship counselors who have gained a further qualification in sex therapy. They all have an awareness of how relationship difficulties are linked to sexual problems. Sex therapists help you look at your sexual relationship. They work with individuals and couples to explore what is not working and what needs to be different.

Some common reasons for going to sex therapy include:

Concerns about sexual functioning, such as problems with arousal, orgasm, and painful sex
Basic sex education (even advice for educating children about sex .  Addressing sexual trauma
Differences in desire among couples
Changes in desire or libido
Sexual Orientation
Interest in exploring kinks, like BDSM
Differences in desired progression of sexual relationship among couples
Enhancement of sexual relationships
Cross-dressing
Questions about sexual identity and preferences
Desire to alter or resolve problematic sexual inhibitions or habits
Obsessed with sex
Feeling guilt having sex

Relationship and Couple Counseling

Couple Counseling serves to help couples explore their relational difficulties in a safe environment, while learning how to work together to heal their relationship.

You will discover the enjoyment of working together using Melissa Jane’s revolutionary model. Couples practice how to address painful issues utilizing boundaries and improved communication, and building on existing strengths within the coupleship. New rules of engagement are introduced. Vulnerability is encouraged. Exploration of embroiled patterns stemming from family of origin are examined reducing shame and aiding in the release of those behaviors.

1. We will work on addressing underlying hurts and issues that get triggered and create disconnection
2. Melissa Jane will help you to find new ways to process through the hurts and make the disconnection an vehicle for intimacy and new levels of love.
3. The underlying focus of the workshop helps couples to find safe ways to communicate about emotional needs.
4. This helps to bring to awareness the ways that our early life experiences affect our relationship with our love partner.
5. You and your partner will open up powerful insights and provides new knowledge about ways to reclaim positive love connections.

Melissa Jane
sexologybkk@gmail.com

Sexology and Couple Counseling

 

My name is Melissa Jane, i am a Sexologist from America. I can help and support you and your partner when it comes to any sexual issues and miscommunications.

I have more than 15 years of experience as a psychotherapist and sexologist. I work with individuals, couples, and families seeking support in child/ teenager problems, intimacy, divorce adjustment, anxiety, depression, transgender, parenting, grief, and addiction.

 

Work Experience:

Provide counseling and psychotherapy services for singles, couples, families and groups. Consultation for medical professionals, and mental health practitioners

Supervision for mental health interns, art therapists, sex therapists.

Presenter, lecturer, and teacher.

Participate in treatment planning.

Conduct individual, couples, and family sessions.

Provide initial evaluations.

Specializing in treatment of anxiety and phobias.

Provide counseling and psychotherapy for individuals, couples, groups.

 

Skills:

Psychotherapy, Couples Counseling, Clinical Sexology, Life Transitions, Intimacy, Infidelity, Anger Management, Sexual Abuse, Cognitive Restructuring, Anxiety, Depression, Bi-Polar and Mood Disorders, Cross Dressing, Compulsive Sexual Behavior including Internet Porn, Depression, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Phobias, Men’s Issues, Women’s Issues, Affairs, Personality Disorders, ADD/ADHD, Psychotherapy for People in Recovery, Attachment Disorders, Trauma, Grief and Loss, Transgender, Lesbian and Gay Population, Blended Family, Divorce Adjustment, Work-related Stress, Sexual Abuse, Desire Disorders, Transgender, Affairs, Erectile Dysfunction, Fetishes, Sexuality and Aging, and Sexuality Concerns for those with Physical Disabilities and Chronic Illness.

 

Melissa Jane

 

https://sexologybkk.wordpress.com/

Art & Creativity for Healing: Naked Painting Workshop

Nude art therapy bridges the gap between the conscious and the unconscious mind. It can bring light to areas of therapy that are blocked, inhibited, and stuck, as well as bringing greater focus to those areas of concern. The primary focus is on the process, which allows a person to discover new insight and meaning that might not be achieved with traditional talk therapy. Appropriate for all ages, it can enhance a person’s emotional, spiritual, cognitive, and physical well-being. No talent in the use of expressive arts is required, but rather through letting go and getting into the creative flow.

As you can see, there are many deepening and enriching experiences that expressive arts therapy supports to create a richer, more vibrant therapeutic experience. It is a unique experience and the beauty is in the process, which is at the heart of this therapy.

What is Nudity and Nakedness?

Everyone was born naked and nakedness is truly a beautiful thing. The objective of the workshop is to remove fear, inhibitions and shame while expressing ourselves freely and open-mindedly to appreciate and increase our extra sensory perception to embrace our flaws and be comfortable in our skin.

As a sex therapist, I believe that nudity sets the foundation of how we feel about ourselves and helps us in balancing and grounding our energies and making us a true channel for the energies to flow through us. In other words, it is a “healing” process for the body, mind and soul. In order for us to be happy and reflect positive vibes to others around us, we need to be happy when we look at ourselves and appreciate what we have and be content.

We live in duality within and out and the whole idea is to transcend our bodies and mind to know about your consciousness. Nudity connects us more with compassion and humility and makes you feel connected to the universe.

This workshop is therapeutic and participants are free to create and express without fear of judgement and pressure, sharing art as a tool for self-expression and self-exploration for healing, trauma and self-image in a non-sexual, respectable and safe environment.

Facilitated by Melissa Jane, sex therapist and relationship expert from America.

Saturday 25 March, 2017

9.00 AM- 12.00 PM

Thong Lor, Bangkok

Fee: USD $280 /THB 10.000 per person

Walk-ins: USD $335/ THB 12.000 per person

Limited to 10 participants only.

Advance registration is required, please email: sexologybkk@gmail.com for booking.

Strengthening Coupleship: Working Together examines and improves existing intimate relationships.

This workshop serves to help couples explore their relational difficulties in a safe environment, while learning how to work together to heal their relationship.

In a small group of couples, participants discover the enjoyment of working together using Melissa Jane’s revolutionary model. Couples practice how to address painful issues utilizing boundaries and improved communication and building on existing strengths within the coupleship. New rules of engagement are introduced. Vulnerability is encouraged. Exploration of embroiled patterns stemming from family of origin are examined reducing shame and aiding in the release of those behaviors.

Facilitated by Melissa Jane, sex therapist and relationship expert from America.

The 6-hour couples workshop is designed to introduce you and your partner to the power of communication and bonding in your life and give you all the skills that you will need to better understand each other to live blissfully together. Communication is the key of this workshop and will leave you feeling positive about your relationship. It will give you positivity that can dramatically change how you and your partner relate to each other through communication and understanding.

You will receive the tools, knowledge and guidance to help transform even the most difficult aspects of your relationship into opportunities for growth, healing and joy. The workshop is for couples who want to repair and rebuild the love and intimacy they have lost or to reignite the sparks once again. It is designed to be interactive and you are encouraged to communicate freely and ask any questions that you might have. If you have any questions or concerns regarding this, please email me so I can answer them accordingly.

Details:

1. We work on addressing underlying hurts and issues that get triggered and create disconnection

2. The workshop helps you to find new ways to process through the hurts and make the disconnection an vehicle for intimacy and new levels of love.

3. The underlying focus of the workshop helps couples to find safe ways to communicate about emotional needs.

4. This workshop helps to bring to awareness the ways that our early life experiences affect our relationship with our love partner.

5. Participating in this workshop opens up powerful insights and provides new knowledge about ways to reclaim positive love connections.

Saturday, February 25, 2017

9.00 AM- 3.00 PM

Bangkok

Limited to 7 couples ONLY.

Advance registration is required, please email: sexologybkk@gmail.com for booking.

Fee: USD $835 /THB 30.000 THB per couple

https://sexologybkk.wordpress.com/

Art & Creativity for Healing: Naked Painting Workshop in Bangkok

What is Nudity and Nakedness?

Everyone was born naked and nakedness is truly a beautiful thing. The objective of the workshop is to remove fear, inhibitions and shame while expressing ourselves freely and open-mindedly to appreciate and increase our extra sensory perception to embrace our flaws and be comfortable in our skin.

As a sex therapist, I believe that nudity sets the foundation of how we feel about ourselves and helps us in balancing and grounding our energies and making us a true channel for the energies to flow through us. In other words, it is a “healing” process for the body, mind and soul. In order for us to be happy and reflect positive vibes to others around us, we need to be happy when we look at ourselves and appreciate what we have and be content.

We live in duality within and out and the whole idea is to transcend our bodies and mind to know about your consciousness. Nudity connects us more with compassion and humility and makes you feel connected to the universe.

This workshop is therapeutic and participants are free to create and express without fear of judgement and pressure, sharing art as a tool for self-expression and self-exploration for healing, trauma and self-image in a non-sexual, respectable and safe environment.

Facilitated by Melissa Jane, sex therapist and relationship expert from America.

Saturday 25 February, 2017

9.00 AM- 12.00 PM

Thong Lor, Bangkok

Fee: USD $280 /THB 10.000 per person

Walk-ins: USD $335/ THB 12.000 per person

Limited to 10 participants only.

Advance registration is required, please email: sexologybkk@gmail.com for booking.

https://sexologybkk.wordpress.com/

What Is A Sex Therapist And Do I Need One?

A sex therapist is trained in sex therapy methods beyond the minimal amount of training about sexuality and can be a marriage, relationship or family therapist and not necessarily a psychiatrist or psychologist.

There are a few graduate schools in the U.S. that specialize in training for sex therapy. Some people assemble their training by rigorous self-study and by attendance at the major sexological organizations’ annual conferences.

So seeing a sex therapist is like going to a gynecologist for gynecological problems rather than to a family practice physician. Both have specialized particularly in that area. That isn’t to say that one couldn’t get good help from a non-sex therapist for a sexual issue, it’s just that the likelihood might be a bit less.

Most sex therapists have a particular awareness of sexuality that rises above personal opinion or personal experiences. We usually have several choices of ways to treat a particular issue when someone presents it. We tailor our treatment to the person(s) before us. We are not a “bigger hammer” there to coerce a person who wants less sex into wanting more. There is a sexological method to treating sexual issues.

Sex therapy views sexual issues as being resolved by specifically addressing them, rather than by the assumption that when the individuals in a relationship work out the relationship issues, the sex will just fall into place. For years, I have had a practice full of couples for whom that simply was not true.

Moreover, lots of my readers have written in seeking advice regarding their stagnating sex lives. Although men usually complain that their women don’t give them enough sex to satisfy their appetites, there are problems endured by guys that go way beyond “not enough sex” — you don’t need to be setting any sex records, but a little intimacy now and then isn’t a lot to ask for! There are physical, psychological and relationship issues that might be causing such developing sexual problems, but as long as you’re willing to try, your relationship and sexual appetite for your partner can be salvaged.

If your sex life isn’t what it used to be, it may be time to ask yourself: Is it time for sex therapy? Sex therapy is not only for those with impotence and other sexual debilitation; it is also convenient for couples who feel that their sex life isn’t headed where they would like or are simply having sexual difficulties. Sex therapy is professional treatment that helps one deal with sexual functions and expressions. It ultimately assists individuals and couples in dealing with sexually expressing themselves more effectively. Sex therapists then deal with a wide variety of sexual drawbacks, from the clearly evident and physiological, to the less apparent and perhaps psychological.