Workshop for Couples

This workshop serves to help couples explore their relational difficulties in a safe environment, while learning how to work together to heal their relationship.Participants will discover the enjoyment of working together using Melissa Jane’s revolutionary model. Couples practice how to address painful issues utilizing boundaries and improved communication, and building on existing strengths within the coupleship. New rules of engagement are introduced. Vulnerability is encouraged. Exploration of embroiled patterns stemming from family of origin are examined reducing shame and aiding in the release of those behaviors.

Facilitated by Melissa Jane, sex therapist and relationship expert from America.

The couples workshop is designed to introduce you and your partner to the power of communication and bonding in your life and give you all the skills that you will need to better understand each other to live blissfully together. Communication is the key of this workshop and will leave you feeling positive about your relationship. It will give you positivity that can dramatically change how you and your partner relate to each other through communication and understanding.

You will receive the tools, knowledge and guidance to help transform even the most difficult aspects of your relationship into opportunities for growth, healing and joy. The workshop is for couples who want to repair and rebuild the love and intimacy they have lost or to reignite the sparks once again. It is designed to be interactive and you are encouraged to comunicate freely and ask any questions that you might have. If you have any questions or concerns regarding this, please email me so I can answer them accordingly.

Details:

1. We work on addressing underlying hurts and issues that get triggered and create disconnection

2. The workshop helps you to find new ways to process through the hurts and make the disconnection an vehicle for intimacy and new levels of love.

3. The underlying focus of the workshop helps couples to find safe ways to communicate about emotional needs.

4. This workshop helps to bring to awareness the ways that our early life experiences affect our relationship with our love partner.

5. Participating in this workshop opens up powerful insights and provides new knowledge about ways to reclaim positive love connections.

Advance registration is required, please email: sexologybkk@gmail.com for booking.

Couple Counseling

Couple Counseling serves to help couples explore their relational difficulties in a safe environment, while learning how to work together to heal their relationship.
You will discover the enjoyment of working together using Melissa Jane’s revolutionary model. Couples practice how to address painful issues utilizing boundaries and improved communication, and building on existing strengths within the coupleship. New rules of engagement are introduced. Vulnerability is encouraged. Exploration of embroiled patterns stemming from family of origin are examined reducing shame and aiding in the release of those behaviors.
1. We will work on addressing underlying hurts and issues that get triggered and create disconnection

2. Melissa Jane will help you to find new ways to process through the hurts and make the disconnection an vehicle for intimacy and new levels of love.

3. The underlying focus of the workshop helps couples to find safe ways to communicate about emotional needs.

4. This helps to bring to awareness the ways that our early life experiences affect our relationship with our love partner.

5. You and your partner will open up powerful insights and provides new knowledge about ways to reclaim positive love connections.
Melissa Jane

sexologybkk@gmail.com

When your little man is not working

Erectile dysfunction, or ED, is when it is hard to get or keep an erection that’s firm enough for sex. ED affects as many as 30 million men.

Most men have problems with erections from time to time. But when this happens more than half of the time, then ED is present. ED can happen when health problems limit blood flow or damage nerves in the penis. ED can also be caused by stress or emotional reasons. ED can be an early warning of a more serious illness. Heart disease, high blood pressure and high blood sugar can all cause ED. Finding and treating the cause(s) of your ED can help your overall health and well-being.

How Erections Work

When you are not sexually aroused, your penis is soft and limp. During sexual arousal, nerve messages release chemicals that increase blood flow into the penis. The blood flows into two erection chambers made of spongy tissue (the corpus cavernosum) in the penis. The “smooth muscle” in the erection chambers relaxes, which lets blood enter and stay in the chambers. The pressure of the blood in the chambers makes the penis firm, giving you an erection. After you have an orgasm, the blood flows out of the chambers and the erection goes away.

When Erections Don’t Work

Men who have a problem with their sexual performance may be reluctant to talk to their doctor or therapist , seeing it as an embarrassing issue. However, modern medicine has revealed numerous medical and psychological explanations for erectile dysfunction, including the possibility of serious underlying conditions that it is important to address.

Doctors and Therapists are used to dealing with potentially embarrassing issues in private consultations, and not only is erectile dysfunction now more clearly understood, there is also often a solution for the condition. If you or someone close to you has a problem with getting or maintaining an erection, contact a sexologist, Urologist or a Doctor for consultation and advice.

There are a number of things you can try yourself. Recommendation is to seeing a therapist to get assessment to start to do the right exercises for your needs.

 

 

Treatment for Intimacy Disorders, Infidelity, Porn and Sex Addiction

Sex addiction and intimacy disorders are real issues. So is treatment that can change your life.

Over the last few years, I have built one of the most effective programs available for the treatment of problem sexual behaviors, including serial infidelity, exhibitionism/voyeurism, compulsive masturbation or anonymous sex, as well as addiction to cybersex, Internet porn, sexual massage or strip clubs. In an emotionally safe, experienced, and respectful session together, I will help you overcome what may now seem like an insurmountable problem. Contact me for a confidential consultation and assessment. I can help.

What Are Hypersexual Disorders

Recurrent and intense sexual fantasies, sexual urges, and sexual behavior in association with excessive time consumed by sexual fantasies and urges, and by planning for and engaging in sexual behavior.

Repetitively engaging in these sexual fantasies, urges, and behavior in response to dysphoric mood states (e.g., anxiety, depression, boredom, irritability).

Repetitively engaging in sexual fantasies, urges, and behavior in response to stressful life

Repetitive but unsuccessful efforts to control or significantly reduce these sexual fantasies, urges, and behavior.

Repetitively engaging in sexual behavior while disregarding the risk for physical or emotional harm to self or others.

Melissa Jane

Sexologist

https://sexologybkk.wordpress.com/

What’s Causing Erectile Dysfunction in Your Life?

Erectile dysfunction (impotence) is the inability to get and keep an erection firm enough for sex. Impotence is a common problem among men and is characterized by the consistent inability to sustain an erection sufficient for sexual intercourse or the inability to achieve ejaculation, or both. Erectile dysfunction can vary. It can involve a total inability to achieve an erection or ejaculation, an inconsistent ability to do so, or a tendency to sustain only very brief erections.
Erectile dysfunction affects an estimated 18 million men in the U.S. Alone.
Treating ED with medications like sildenafil (brand name: Viagra) isn’t your only option. Instead, there are exercises you can do. Pelvic exercises helped 40 percent of men with ED regain normal erectile function. It also helped an additional 33.5 percent significantly improve erectile function, with consultation, exercise and Lingam massage.
If you’re concerned about erectile dysfunction, contact a Doctor or sexologist— even if you’re embarrassed. Sometimes, treating an underlying condition is enough to reverse erectile dysfunction. In other cases, medications or other direct treatments might be needed.

Causes of impotence are many and include heart disease, high cholesterol, high blood pressure, obesity, metabolic syndrome, Parkinson’s disease, Peyronie’s disease, substance abuse, sleep disorders, BPH treatments, relationship problems, blood vessel diseases,  peripheral vascular disease, systemic disease, hormonal imbalance, and medications

Masturbate Your Way To A Better Sex Life

There was a time when masturbation was an incredibly taboo subject that could get you banned for life from even the most liberal dinner table. While it’s still not exactly dinner table conversation–unless you’re on a smokin’ hot date and the ambiance is right–it’s far less sensitive a subject than it used to be. Maybe that’s why it’s now clear that masturbation not only feels good, but it can also make your actual sex life better, among many other benefits.

Masturbation feels good, but beyond the obvious, it’s also a great way to get to know your body and figure out what feels good, what feels great, and what you don’t like. Becoming familiar with your erogenous zones and knowing how–and where–you like to be touched can transfer to better feels in the bedroom, as long as you have an open-minded relationship with your sexual partner. Speaking of which, getting to know your partner’s preferences is also a good way to make the great sex mutual.

Masturbating on a regular basis helps you last longer when faced with the real deal. You can essentially learn to control your sexual release by stopping just before the point of no return, waiting until the urge has passed, and going at it some more. As you practice, be mindful of your body’s cues and try different tactics to stave off the inevitable, such as taking deeper breaths, focusing on something else, or moving in a different way.

It can also be helpful to perform Kegel exercises when you think of it during the day as well as when you’re polishing the rocket. Kegel exercises strengthen the pelvic muscles and can help you hold off on ejaculating as well as dramatically improve ejaculation. To do these exercises, squeeze and release the same muscles that control your urine flow. Build up the number of contractions you can do over time, and mix up the amount of time you hold them and the rhythm with which you perform them. It takes just a few weeks to notice a marked difference in the power of your orgasms.

We are so lucky to live in a culture today that is slowly becoming more comfortable with the idea of sexuality, but always remember that ultimately, your sexuality is your own. We should all feel free to explore our desires without fear and to practice self-love at our own pace and without worry or shame, and certainly without the looming threat of blindness. Let today be the day you begin a brand new relationship with yourself — one that is based on freedom, desire, authenticity, and pleasure. Let your body be your guide, and remember: the better you are at loving yourself, the better you’ll be at loving other people.

PE, ED, Intimacy Disorders, Infidelity, Porn and Addictions

If you are experiencing sex problems, you will probably be feeling very alone and helpless. Shame, fear and embarrassment are other common emotions felt by people living with sexual dysfunction, and many will suffer for months, even years in silence – too afraid to discuss their concerns with anyone.

Sex problems are very common, and can occur for a number of reasons. In the majority of cases they are linked to other challenges and difficulties. For example, when you are feeling stressed and have a lot on your mind, you don’t often feel like having sex or being intimate. This knock-on effect is usually mild and temporary and will soon dissipate, but if a sexual problem is more severe and complex, it can have stronger and longer-term effects on your sexuality, your relationships and way of life.

Seeking help as soon as possible is vital for ensuring your sex problems do not have far reaching consequences. Sex therapy is considered highly effective for addressing the causes of sexual dysfunction, and for helping people to develop healthier attitudes towards sex and sexual intimacy

My name is Melissa Jane and I am an expert in Sexology from America.
I can help and support you and your partner when it comes to any sexual issues and miscommunications or just to add spark and spice to your sex life and make it a little bit more exciting.
I have more than 15 years of experience as a psychotherapist and sexologist. I work with individuals, couples, and families seeking support in Communication, Divorce adjustment, Anxiety, Depression, Sexual issues, Intimacy Problems, PE, ED, Transgender, Fetishes, Grief and Addictions.

Melissa Jane

Consultations available in Bangkok and worldwide upon request.

Work Experience and Skills

My name is Melissa Jane and I am a sex therapist and relationship expert from America.

I can help and support you and your partner when it comes to any sexual issues and miscommunications.

I have more than 15 years of experience as a psychotherapist and sexologist. I work with individuals, couples, and families seeking support in intimacy, divorce adjustment, anxiety, depression, transgender, parenting, grief and addiction.

Work Experience:

Provide counseling and psychotherapy services for adults, couples, families and groups.

Consultation for medical professionals and mental health practitioners

Supervision for mental health interns, art therapists, sex therapists.

Presenter, lecturer and teacher.

Participate in treatment planning.

Conduct individual, couples and family sessions.

Provide initial evaluations.

Specializing in treatment of anxiety and phobias.

Provide counseling and psychotherapy for individuals, couples, groups.

Skills:

Psychotherapy, Couples Counseling, Clinical Sexology, Life Transitions, Intimacy, Anger Management, Cognitive Restructuring, Anxiety, Depression, Bi-Polar and Mood Disorders, Cross Dressing, Compulsive Sexual Behavior including Internet Porn, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Phobias, Men’s Issues, Women’s Issues, Affairs, Infidelity, Personality Disorders, ADD, ADHD, Psychotherapy for People in Recovery, Attachment Disorders, Trauma, Grief and Loss, Transgender, Voyeurism, Blended Family, Divorce Adjustment, Work-related Stress, Sexual Abuse, Desire Disorders, Transgender,  PCT, Lesbian and Gay Population, Fetishes, Sexuality and Aging, and Sexuality Concerns for those with Physical Disabilities, Chronic Illness, Erectile Dysfunction, Premature Ejaculation, ED, PE, Vaginal Problems, Paraphillias, Orgasm disorders, Anorgasmia, Vulvodynia, Retarded ejaculation, PMS, PMDD,Sexual aversion disorder , Menopause and Women/Men Health

Sex Therapist and Relationship Expert

Melissa Jane

https://sexologybkk.wordpress.com/

Consultations available in Bangkok and worldwide upon request.

Premature ejaculation -PE / Erectile dysfunction -ED

Premature ejaculation is uncontrolled ejaculation either before or shortly after sexual penetration.

It happens with minimal sexual stimulation and before the person wishes. It may result in unsatisfactory sex for both partners. This can increase the anxiety that may add to the problem. It is one of the most common forms of male sexual dysfunction. It has probably affected every man at some point in his life.

Erectile dysfunction affects an estimated 18 million men in the U.S. Alone.

Treating ED with medications like sildenafil (brand name: Viagra) isn’t your only option.

Instead, there are exercises you can do. Pelvic exercises helped 40 percent of men with ED regain normal erectile function. It also helped an additional 33.5 percent significantly improve erectile function, with consultation and exercise.

My name is Melissa Jane and I am a sex therapist and relationship expert from America.

 I believe in a holistic, professional approach. These things work on body, soul and a spiritual level.

Sex Therapist and Relationship Expert
Melissa Jane
Consultations available in Bangkok and worldwide upon request.

Male Sexual Dysfunction

What is sexual dysfunction?

Sexual dysfunction is any physical or psychological problem that prevents you or your partner from getting sexual satisfaction. Male sexual dysfunction is a common health problem affecting men of all ages, but is more common with increasing age. Treatment can often help men suffering from sexual dysfunction.

The main types of male sexual dysfunction are:

•  Erectile dysfunction (difficulty getting/keeping an erection)
•  Premature ejaculation (reaching orgasm too quickly)
•  Delayed or inhibited ejaculation (reaching orgasm too slowly or not at all)
•  Low libido (reduced interest in sex)
• Changes in the way you ejaculate
• Bleeding during urination or ejaculation
• Warts, bumps, lesions or a rash on your penis or in your genital area
• A severely bent penis or curvature that causes pain or interferes with sexual activity
• A burning sensation when you urinate
• Discharge from your penis
• Severe pain after trauma to your penis
• Abrupt increases in sexual desire, particularly in older men
• Significant declines in sexual desire

If you want to keep bringing your A-game to the bedroom, sometimes you need more than just experience and time on the “field.” When facing a “batting slump” or other problem that prevents you from having sex, it’s time to call in an expert.

While male sexual dysfunction cannot be prevented, dealing with the causes of the dysfunction can help you better understand and cope with the problem when it happens. To help maintain good sexual function.

To stay fit in the bedroom, sometimes you need expert advice. Don’t be afraid to seek help and discuss about these performance issues.
The problem will not go away overnight or on its own and the sooner you seek help the better for you and your sex life. In addition to damaging your ego, sexual issues may signal more serious health conditions. In most cases, these can be treated. You need a plan of action.
Sex  Therapist  and Relationship Consultant
Melissa Jane