Loss of Sex Drive

Lack of or a low sexual desire is one of the most common sexual dysfunctions. Getting to the root of low libido can help you enjoy sexual activity again.
As many as 43 percent of women and 31 percent of men have experienced sexual dysfunction, and one of the most common problems is low libido, or a low sex drive.
Missing the spark that makes you want to enjoy sexual activity is a prevalent type of sexual dysfunction, but it is also one of the trickiest to solve.
For some people, low libido is a new problem that has a physical or emotional cause. Others may have had low sexual desire their entire lives, and that may be a result of the way their brains are hardwired. When it’s an ongoing problem, there might be more to the problem than you think and if left untreated or ignored, it could only get worse leading to anxiety, depression, frustration.
Melissa Jane

Masturbation is one of the best things you can do

Masturbation is one of the best things you can do for your body. If you want to treat your body well, then you want to add masturbation to your list of ways to do just that. If you’re active, eat well, and avoid toxins like smoking and excessive drinking, then why aren’t you masturbating, too? And if you are, why aren’t you masturbating more? It’s not like you can overdo it, well, except for those few times I was late to work, because I couldn’t stop, but I’ve never been one to adhere to the advice of moderation so that’s on me.

The mental and physical health aspects of masturbation aside, it also makes you better at sex. No joke. It’s a woman who masturbates and masturbates often who’s killing in the sack. Here are a few  reasons why.

First, masturbation helps to promote healthy blood flow to the genitals. By improving circulation to this area, you can ensure that your sexual response stays in tip-top shape and that your orgasms remain strong and powerful.

Studies have found that a negative perception of your body can really mess up your libido. Not only can it make it so you don’t enjoy sex as much as you should, but that you don’t even want it all. But in masturbating regularly you become more comfortable with your body.

By enjoying masturbation, you can keep connected to your own sexual desires and fantasies, and learn what excites you.

The best way to strengthen any muscle is to exercise it. When you masturbate, that’s exactly what you’re doing to your pelvic floor muscles.Stronger pelvic floor muscles lead to better sex and more orgasms. Better sex how, you ask? If you’ve ever clenched your partner’s penis with your vaginal muscles during sex, then you know exactly what I’m talking about. It’s like giving a hand job during penetration and feels amazing for both of you.

Regular masturbation can help prevent urinary tract infections, yeast infections, and even cervical infections. What this means is that without these things standing in the way of your sex life, you get to have more sex, which is essentially practice that makes you even better at it. Practice makes perfect, people.

Sex therapists across the globe have found that men who experience premature ejaculation during sexual intercourse can benefit from masturbation about 2 hours before sex. This enables them to have a longer duration of intercourse before another ejaculation comes on.

Taking yourself to palm prom may help you stretch your sack sessions. Train yourself by timing how long it takes you to orgasm. If it usually takes two minutes solo, try for three next time. Or count how many strokes you need to get to your happy place. If you’re spurting after 50, shoot for 60. Practice makes perfect, right?

Masturbation has been used in the management of stress, as it results in release of feel-good hormones, called oxytocin, in the body. It has also been found useful in dealing with depression.

Melissa Jane

Happy Sex

Sex is a taboo subject in many ways, but most of us want it, practicing it and enjoying it.

Friday afternoon we start to cool down for the weekend and we wish each other a Happy Weekend, Have Fun, Enjoy and Have a great Weekend. Have you ever wish anyone Happy sex?

Sex is… perfectly natural. It’s something that’s pleasurable. It’s enjoyable and it enhances a relationship. So why don’t we learn as much as we can about it and become comfortable with ourselves as sexual human beings because we are all sexual?

Sue Johanson

1. Talk about it, even if it feels awkward to bring up.  

If you want to get back to having sex, you’re going to have to bring up the elephant in the room: Tell your partner you’re unhappy with your sex life and want things to change. The important thing is to be real with each other and gauge whether or not your S.O. feels similarly.

Have a direct conversation about what you each are willing to do to rebuild your sex life, You need to both agree that you are unhappy with the quality and frequency and be willing to commit time and energy into rebuilding it.

If one of you is perfectly content with your lackluster sex life, you may need to see a therapist.

2. Flirt shamelessly. 

If at this point, you can count the number of times you’ve held hands in the last year, it’s not a good thing. Once you’ve had the conversation above, flirting with your spouse is the best way to demonstrate that you mean business about having sex again, said Skurtu.

“Talk to your partner about what styles of flirtation you find exciting as well — ‘I like it when you kiss me randomly and then go do something else. It leaves me wanting more!’” Play again -You can send flirty texts, just start to be playful again.

3. Don’t wait for your partner — go solo.

Just because sex with your partner is infrequent doesn’t mean you’re not a sexual person. Masturbating more often is one of the most liberating moves you can make during this sexless period.

If your partner’s libido is gone, you can still have a rich and active sex life! This is a revolutionary way to think about sex in a couples-obsessed culture and it goes way beyond masturbation: You can enjoy all of the sensual pleasures of life, get into the best shape of your life and otherwise enjoy being in your body.

4. Carve out some time for a weekly sex date.

Scheduling time for sex may sound supremely unsexy but hey, desperate times call for desperate measures. When you and your partner have hit your stride again, you’ll think back fondly on your days of Google calendar-suggested sex.

With a sex date on the calendar, you are more likely to plan out what you can do to make it fun, different and exciting.

5. Hug and touch on a regular basis.

Bringing sexy back isn’t going to happen overnight, but it helps to remember that making a connection doesn’t have to be an all or nothing deal. Start with a massage or simply touching and work your way up to sex, said sex educator Chris Maxwell Rose.

Affectionate touch is just as important to the health of a relationship as passionate sex. “Even if you aren’t having sex, try to add more casual affection into your days; long hugs, kissing and cuddling are all wonderful ways to express your love.”

Take baby steps at first, Rose added: “Aim for at least one long hug (at least 20 seconds or longer to trigger the release of oxytocin) or cuddling session a day.”

6. Revisit your sexual highlights as a couple.

You don’t want to dwell on the past, but bring up good memories can be a good start

“Start from the beginning and be specific: ‘You remember when we were on that hike in the woods and we ended up having sex?’” Skurtu said. “Go through old sex stories play by play and talk about how it felt for each of you during those experiences. This skill can help couples begin to feel that old spark together.”

7. If something feels good, go with it. 

You may have had certain preferences back in the day. As you re-approach sex again, give yourself permission to experiment with whatever comes naturally and feels right to you both, Nelson said. It may help you get out of your rut.

“If you ate ravioli every night of the week for year after year, wouldn’t you be totally sick of ravioli?” she said. “Try something new. You aren’t going to have sex if you’ve been together for a long time and sex has become boring or mundane.”

8. Romance each other.

Aside from sex dates, make a plan to go on actual dates.

“Go on a classic long walk on the beach, dress up sexy for each other or light a fire at home,” she said. “The key is to put some effort into the time you spend with your spouse.”

Here are a few super small, simple ideas that can be a lot of fun:

  • Have sex at a different time of day than you usually do.
  • Get down in a new room or on a new surface, like on the stairs, in your kitchen, or on top of the washing machine.
  • Use pillows beneath your butt to create new angles in your favorite sex positions.
  • Try having sex for different lengths of time, like going for quickies or spending an entire afternoon being intimate.
Play with your senses
To engage your sense of touch, try teasing each other with unique textures, like silk ties, fuzzy scarves, or soft feathers. Or try caressing your partner’s body in two different ways, and asking them to pick their favorite. You can also try cutting off your senses, like using a blindfold or trying not to touch each other with your hands.

God luck, and have fun exploring!

Wish You a Happy Sex day!

Melissa Jane

Sex problems

Sex problems

If you are experiencing sex problems, you will probably be feeling very alone and helpless. Shame, fear and embarrassment are other common emotions felt by people living with sexual dysfunction, and many will suffer for months, even years in silence – too afraid to discuss their concerns with anyone.

Sex problems are very common, and can occur for a number of reasons. In the majority of cases they are linked to other challenges and difficulties. For example, when you are feeling stressed and have a lot on your mind, you don’t often feel like having sex or being intimate. This knock-on effect is usually mild and temporary and will soon dissipate, but if a sexual problem is more severe and complex, it can have stronger and longer-term effects on your sexuality, your relationships and way of life.

Seeking help as soon as possible is vital for ensuring your sex problems do not have far reaching consequences. Sex therapy is considered highly effective for addressing the causes of sexual dysfunction, and for helping people to develop healthier attitudes towards sex and sexual intimacy. This page will explore this treatment in more detail, while also highlighting causes and symptoms of some of the most common sex problems.

What are sex problems?

A sex problem, or sexual dysfunction refers to a difficulty that occurs during any phase of the sexual response cycle. The sexual response cycle is the sequence of emotional and physical changes that take place when a person becomes sexually aroused and engages in a sexually stimulating activity, such as intercourse or masturbation. There are four stages to this cycle – excitement, plateau, orgasm and resolution – and if the body fails to respond during one or all of these, it may signify a sex problem.

What causes sex problems?

There are many different reasons why someone may develop sex problems, but generally it tends to be due to a combination of physical, emotional, psychological and situational factors.

  • Physical factors – Disabilities and illnesses such as diabetes, heart disease, alcoholism and drug abuse can contribute to sexual dysfunction. Individuals who have experienced major surgery, pregnancy and the menopause are also more likely to develop sex problems.
  • Psychological – Anxiety, depression and other mental health issues can have a negative impact on sexual responses.
  • Emotional – Unresolved grief, betrayal, unhappiness in a relationship, and low self-esteem can take a toll on how people feel sexually. For example, if someone has experienced trauma such as sexual abuse, they may feel unable to fully participate during sexual intimacy.
  • Situational – A change in circumstances or living in a stressful situation (i.e. moving in with the in-laws, having a baby, or financial problems) can contribute to the development of sex problems.

Common sex problems

Although there is a wide range of sex problems, which may affect each individual differently, generally we are all likely to face similar issues within our gender. Below is a list of some of the most common sex problems in men and women to provide insight into some of the conditions that can be treated with counselling.

Female sex problems

Pain during sex

Also known as dyspareunia, pain during sex can be very common – particularly in women who have gone through, or are going through the menopause. There are various medical conditions that can contribute to this pain, including endometriosis, and ovarian cysts, but it can also be due to poor lubrication during sexual intimacy which may be psychologically linked. Other causes include scar tissue from surgery and sexually transmitted diseases.

In some cases women experiencing pain during sex may have – a distressing condition characterised by an involuntary spasm of the muscles that surround the entrance of the vagina. Vaginismus is common in women who fear penetration, and this may stem from a long-term sexual phobia or a previous traumatic or painful experience such as sexual abuse or childbirth. Vaginismus symptoms may also be linked to relationship problems or fear of pregnancy. Vaginal trainers are usually provided to help women overcome this sex problem, but counselling is considered an effective treatment in addition to medical intervention. 

Orgasmic disorder

According to Relate, around one in four women will have problems reaching an orgasm at some stage during their life, while 25-35% may have never experienced an orgasm. Although many women do not need to have an orgasm to enjoy sex, being unable to orgasm may be troubling for some women and their partners.

Reasons why women can’t orgasm during any form of sexual stimulation vary – from medical causes to deep-rooted psychological issues that may be impacting their ability to ‘let go’. Typical medical causes of orgasmic disorder include neurological, vascular or hormonal problems, while some medications may also have an effect. Alternatively some women may just have a very strong fear of sex and feeling aroused (often out of fear of losing control) while others may be dissatisfied in their relationship and with the sexual stimulation their partner is/isn’t providing. Mental health issues such as depression or previous traumatic experiences can also contribute to orgasmic disorder.

Loss of desire 

It is common for women to experience lack of sex drive at certain periods in her life – particularly during pregnancy and times of stress – but some women may have it more persistently. Again, there are several psychological and physical factors that can cause this, including diabetes, relationship problems, hormone disorders, depression, excessive tiredness, traumatic sexual experiences and drug and alcohol abuse. Lack of sex drive is also linked to a reduction in a woman’s natural testosterone levels. 

In rare cases, women may have what is called ‘sexual anorexia’ – a condition that is not in itself a diagnosis, but refers to a complete lack of desire for sex. Women with sexual anorexia will constantly avoid sex and may go for years without engaging in sexual intimacy with their partners. Like the eating disorder, sexual anorexia is predominantly psychologically linked, and counselling is considered essential for helping sufferers to perceive sex and sexual intimacy as something natural and healthy rather than bad and shameful.

Male sex problems

Ejaculation problems 

Ejaculation problems are very common and men will typically experience one of three types of disorder:

  • Premature ejaculation – Where a man ejaculates too quickly during sexual intercourse. The average time of ejaculation is considered five minutes so regularly ejaculating before or within one minute of penetration is regarded as premature.
  • Retarded/delayed ejaculation – A delay in achieving ejaculation, or where a man is completely unable to ejaculate during sexual activity. Also known as male orgasmic disorder.
  • Retrograde ejaculation – The least common of the three, this condition is where the sperm travels backwards and enters the bladder instead of passing through the urethra and head of the penis. Orgasm is still experienced but there will be no, or little semen.

As with the female sex problems, male sexual dysfunction such as premature ejaculation is linked to psychological and/or physical factors. These include stress and previous sexual trauma as well as medical conditions such as diabetes.

Erectile dysfunction 

Also known as impotence, erectile dysfunction refers to the inability to get and maintain an erection that is satisfactory for sexual intercourse. This is quite common and is linked to hormonal problems and the narrowing of blood vessels inside of the penis due to high blood pressure. Stress, anxiety and mental health issues are further causes of erectile dysfunction, along with sexual boredom and constant worrying about pleasing a partner. Unfortunately, for many men, even when the initial cause of an erection problem has passed, the anxiety of repeated failure may block future erections.

When is the right time to seek help for sex problems?

Talking about sex problems is understandably difficult and embarrassing for many, and as a result some people may refrain from seeking help. Suffering in silence however can make the problem worse, and it could lead to a lot of stress and unhappiness in your life and for those around you – particularly your partner. Although sex problems can stem from deeper issues within a relationship, sexual dysfunction can also cause relationships to suffer. Sex and sexual intimacy is an important part of bonding between two people in a relationship and without it a couple can become disconnected. When this happens it is a good indication that you need to start thinking about getting help.

Some of the signs that sex problems are affecting your relationship include:

  • Sex causes disappointment.
  • Sex is the cause of rows.
  • One or both partners are feeling dissatisfied or stuck in a rut.
  • Couples start drifting apart and losing touch.
  • One or both partners feels taken for granted or neglected.

Treatment for sex problems

The first step in seeking help for sex problems is to make an appointment to have your condition diagnosed and appropriate treatment methods explored. To establish the cause of a sexual dysfunction, I will ask questions about your sexual, social and medical history. Sex therapy is often the next course of action for individuals and couples experiencing sex problems, and although it may seem daunting opening up about intimate and somewhat embarrassing details, talking to a Sexologist can be an enlightening experience.

Psychosexual therapy

I am specially trained to talk about sex and help people to explore and overcome sexual dysfunction. Sexologists in particular are very knowledgeable about a wide range of sex problems and have proven successful in helping individuals and couples of all ages, health and sexuality to realize their sexual needs and desires and work through any negative thoughts that may be affecting their ability to enjoy sex and sexual intimacy. 

For more information on this form of treatment, please see my webpage.

Relationship counseling

Relationship counseling, or couples counseling is effective for helping couples to explore their physical communication and their understanding of what sex means to them. Sex may have become mechanical and a way to maintain a safe distance for one person. In such cases, the partner may mourn the lack of intimacy and trust which would allow them to feel safe and enjoy sex. Withdrawal of sex can happen when a person has no alternative way to express their anger and disappointment – so the forbidden feelings are acted out in the bedroom. These are just some of the issues that may be addressed in relationship counseling to help couples become more aware of each other’s needs and desires and thus be able to reach a solution that works best for both of them.

Sexologist Melissa Jane

 

Treatment for Intimacy Disorders, Infidelity, Porn and Sex Addiction

Sex addiction and intimacy disorders are real issues. So is treatment that can change your life.

Over the last few years, I have built one of the most effective programs available for the treatment of problem sexual behaviors, including serial infidelity, exhibitionism/voyeurism, compulsive masturbation or anonymous sex, as well as addiction to cybersex, Internet porn, sexual massage or strip clubs. In an emotionally safe, experienced, and respectful session together, I will help you overcome what may now seem like an insurmountable problem. Contact me for a confidential consultation and assessment. I can help.

What Are Hypersexual Disorders

 Recurrent and intense sexual fantasies, sexual urges, and sexual behavior in association with excessive time consumed by sexual fantasies and urges, and by planning for and engaging in sexual behavior.

 Repetitively engaging in these sexual fantasies, urges, and behavior in response to dysphoric mood states (e.g., anxiety, depression, boredom, irritability).

 Repetitively engaging in sexual fantasies, urges, and behavior in response to stressful life

 Repetitive but unsuccessful efforts to control or significantly reduce these sexual fantasies, urges, and behavior.

 Repetitively engaging in sexual behavior while disregarding the risk for physical or emotional harm to self or others.

Anxiety

Anxiety disorder is the most common mental illness in the United States — it affects approximately 18 percent of the population

So how does it feel to just try to live your life with anxiety disorder?

CAITLIN FLYNN wrote: How 7 Everyday Tasks Feel For Someone With Anxiety

 

Sex Addicts

“Men in the [hypersexual disorder] group had significantly higher odds of being single, not exclusively heterosexual, religious, depressed, prone to sexual boredom, experiencing substance abuse consequences, holding negative attitudes toward pornography use, and evaluating one’s sexual morality more negatively. In contrast, the [high sex drive] group differed from controls only in reporting more positive attitudes toward pornography use.”

Interesting article from http://www.bustle.com/

Interesting article from another Sexologist

So what exactly is a sexologist?

Just like a biologist studies biology, a sexologist studies sexuality. We are interested in what people do sexually and how they feel about it. Sexology encompasses many different fields such as biology, psychology, medicine, gender studies and many more. You can be involved in research, sexual education, or as in my case, counselling.

Describe your working day?

I work with men, women and couples who have sexual issues in a relationship. Usually these are one-to-one sessions. Occasionally it’s a one off session – if someone has a specific question they need answering – usually something like “it takes me a long time to get aroused or to have an orgasm. Is this normal?” Then they just need to hear that they are normal.

But for most people, I like to see them over a six-month period. Often their whole lifestyle is not set up for sexual pleasure. First there must be the intention to do something about that, then there is trying to implement that change. When this happens, other parts of their life are invariably affected too. Sex is complicated and it affects all parts of a relationship.

What is the most common issue you deal with?

In women it’s low desire for and little enjoyment of sex. Often, they find it hard to experience orgasm during sex or when self-pleasuring.

For men it’s rapid ejaculation. Men say they find it difficult to control their ejaculation and are not able to last as long as they would like to. This then is often coupled with finding it difficult to get or keep an erection.

For couples it is that they are best friends but not lovers. Or that they have different levels of desire – one wanting sex more than the other.

What is the advice you most often give?

All change starts within oneself. So the focus is really on creating a loving relationship with yourself first. By this I mean making love with oneself, self-pleasuring.. This is the key for sexual healing and for keeping one’s sexual desire awake.

How does a therapy session work?

When people start the coaching process we start to talk about sex. Even just voicing what they have never had the chance to talk about before is very healing. Often when people start to feel comfortable about talking to me about sex, they are then able to talk about it with their partner.

So first it’s just talk. Then we look at what the sources of the problem could be. Normally that’s many factors – past experience, a belief system you may have grown up in where a woman actively pleasure was seen as wrong or dirty, or that a woman’s role is to give.

Then we look at how to reframe those beliefs and look for ways to achieve pleasure. In between the sessions there are home assignments. I will get a woman to explore self pleasure, to watch a video, read some erotica. Then we talk  about that in the next session – what did or didn’t go right? For a man it could be him practicing lasting longer by himself.

When it comes to couples, most get very anxious if they run into sexual problems thinking they are not normal. But the opposite is true. If a relationship carries on for a long time, it is almost inevitable that sexual desire might become an issue at some point.

As a relationship evolves there will come a point when that natural attraction is not as strong as it was. The good thing about a couple that comes to see me is that they want to work together. I give them homework to find time for themselves, go on date nights, go to bed early with intention of simply exploring and touching each other.

How did you become a sexologist?

When I was younger, I certainly never thought that I would work as a sexologist. Like so many other health practitioners or therapists, I work in the field that I first turned to for myself. When I was in my early 20s I got married to a man I was madly in love with but sexually it didn’t work. Sadly we got divorced and this inspired me to go on a journey of healing, exploring my own sexual energy.

Inspired by the results I began to run women’s circles to help other women and got into it from there. It then became clear to me that sexuality, love and relationships is really what I am passionate about. I still study at the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, which is based in San Francisco.

What really inspires me is meeting couples where there is so much love there, but the one thing that is not working is sex. Often there is a lot of shame around this. I want to help them get through that so that sex no longer standing in the way of them having a fulfilling relationship.

Have you seen an increasing interest in your profession?

There are not many sexologists in the UK but there are many sex and relationship therapists and other practitioners who work with sexuality and sexual concerns. And there certainly has been a rise in the number of professionals working in the field of sexuality because there is such a great need for their services.

How do people respond at dinner parties when you say what you do?

With lots of questions! They don’t understand what it is. They may have also have fantasies about what I do and what I don’t’ do. I am a great supporter of hands-on body work and sex surrogacy. I think that is very important work, but I don’t work in that way.

What does your partner/family think about your job? 

My partner is very supportive. He thinks I am doing great work as I am empowering people to take their lives in a positive direction.

Do more women than men come to see you?

I see about the same number of men as women.

Are there any male sexologists?

Not as many as there are women.

What is the best part of your job?

Witnessing the transformation that my clients go through. It is a very fulfilling career.

 

SEXOLOGIST MELISSA JANE

My name is Melissa Jane and I am an expert in Sexology. I was educated in Europe and America and am fluent in English and Thai.
I can help and support you and your partner when it comes to any sexual issues and miscommunications or just to add spark and spice to your sex life and make it a little bit more exciting.

I have more than 15 years of experience as a psychotherapist and sexologist. I work with individuals, couples, and families seeking support in child/ teen problems, intimacy, divorce adjustment, anxiety, depression, transgender, parenting, grief, and addiction. The aim of sex therapy is to focus on the sexual side of a relationship.

Sexual problems are one of the most common sources of conflict in a relationship and are often also the reason for divorce and miscommunication. This is a specialized field and can help to solve problems within the marriage or relationship.

I believe in a holistic, multi-professional approach. These things work on body, soul and a spiritual level. Sex therapy and marriage counseling can’t be successfully done with only one person, and you can seldom focus only on the physiological dysfunction, seeing as there is an overflow effect. Sexual problems must be solved within a relationship context. Sex therapy combines sex education, relationship counseling and sexual exercises.

I have a problem with the word “sex” because everyone’s definition of sex is different. For me it matters where a relationship begins. When you have an emotional relationship with somebody where you feel safe and comfortable, must your physical relationship also grow as your emotional relationship grows?
I see daily how people have buried their sexuality. A couple must decide for themselves what sex is for them and what they are comfortable with.

This is where a relationship must develop naturally, also the physical.

Unfortunately people get too physical in the “in love” stage, and even have sex. There is nothing as bad as when you are looking for love and acceptance and then instead get sex that is not equal to love. It is often said that couples must ensure that they are sexually compatible before they get married. A penis and a vagina are made to be compatible. A person must ensure that you are emotionally, intellectually and spiritually compatible and that doesn’t happen easily if you are already on the physical road.

Couples with sexual problems normally have relationship problems too, but also the other way around – relationship problems can also create sexual problems. It’s almost impossible to try to solve a problem like this if both parties are not willing to work on it. Even if sexual dysfunction is the result of a medical problem and should be solved with medication, a person should still make the partner part of the solution.

Sex is a two-way street meaning that it takes two to tango. Relationships force you to confront your own issues, problems and hurts. Certain things come to the surface and then counseling is necessary. You can start with yourself and then change the energy of the relationship. If you change how you handle the dynamics of the relationship, you also force your partner to change, and often it is a case of “I want what you have”.

Don’t wait until the problem is too big or unsolvable. Sometimes giving permission, getting information, advice and medical treatment can cause a dramatic improvement in a sexual relationship. Poor communication and conflict that gets worse and is not resolved must also be addressed by a professional person.

Work Experience:

  •  Provide counseling and psychotherapy services for children, teens,                  adults, couples, families and groups.
  •  Consultation for medical professionals, and mental health practitioners
  •  Supervision for mental health interns, art therapists, sex therapists.
  •  Presenter, lecturer, and teacher.
  •  Participate in treatment planning.
  •  Conduct individual, couples, and family sessions.
  •  Provide initial evaluations.
  •  Specializing in treatment of anxiety and phobias.
  •  Provide counseling and psychotherapy for individuals, couples, groups.

Skills:

Psychotherapy, Couples Counseling, Clinical Sexology, Life Transitions, Child/Teen Problems, Intimacy, Anger Management, Sexual Abuse, Cognitive Restructuring, Anxiety, Depression, Bi-Polar and Mood Disorders, Cross Dressing, Compulsive Sexual Behavior including Internet Porn,Depression, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Phobias, Men’s Issues, Women’s Issues, Affairs,Personality Disorders, ADD/ADHD, Psychotherapy for People in Recovery, Attachment Disorders,Trauma, Grief and Loss, Transgender, Lesbian and Gay Population, Blended Family, Divorce Adjustment, Work-related Stress, and Sexuality Concerns for those with Physical Disabilities andChronic Illness. Intimacy, Sexual Abuse, Desire Disorders, Transgender, Affairs, Erectile Dysfunction, Cross Dressing, Compulsive Sexual Behavior including Internet Porn, Lesbian and Gay Population, Fetishes, Sexuality and Aging, and Sexuality Concerns for those with PhysicalDisabilities and Chronic Illness.

Everything will be strictly confidential and respectful.

We will meet in the environment best for you and your partner.

Everything will be tailor made just for You.